The BIG epiphany – a MUST read

So it has been several days since Wicked Daddy has written – but I assure you gentle readers – it was for a great cause. It has long been a hobby of mine to write and teach DIY BDSM to our communities as well as to personally find great value in quality products for my…

This Master/Sir/Daddy is NOT infallible – my admissions….

I admit to my successes being built upon some total failings. I am in Seattle, the place where Amazon stresses “Fail Big, Fail Fast” to their employees.  I have also been (at times) listed a bit of a braggart – as I write often of my successes – but just as important (if not more)…

The Power of Reflex Association

It was roughly seven months ago when I got a call from a former sub of mine. It had been almost 7 years before when we had started our adventure together. At that time she was in my servitude for about 5 1/2 months. We took about 9 months apart and she returned for another…

What’s in a name? The choice of Master, Sir, or Daddy

This is something that is true in almost every Dom/Sub relationship of my last 6 years. It is a wonderful gift I have learned to give. It has become for me a capturing of the essence of those first few moments when you “Fall in love”. It establishes the relationship, the dynamic, and with one…

So, do you Love Anal? Or will this be your first time?

I am a total braggart to say, and say with ZERO humility, but once,  having a girl bound and me leaning my mouth to her ear with a hand that had been teasing her vagina for the last 40 minutes,  while whispering to her the title of this post, made her reach a very fulfilling…

The Mind “F” – One Technique (Graphic 18+)

There is a sublime component of training that removes individual thought. It trains the sub to think only of what the Master wants, and to learn to be conscious of, well, serving without consciousness. It is the mind fuck…… One technique to be shared. This particular sub was a “Thinker” – This Master/Daddy loves “Thinkers”….

BDSM Consultant : Wicked Daddy

So this world moves in odd ways. I am an entrepreneurial spirited man. I have been for many many years, and I am quite adept at networking. About six months ago a friend – another entrepreneur – had asked me if I knew anyone that would be a subject matter expert in BDSM. This conversation…

DIY BDSM – Part 1 (Save Money – get better experience)

I used to have a blog a long time ago on DIY BDSM. This was at a point where I regularly mentored up and coming doms and subs. I had even delivered such teaching in group settings and even at events. I will re-create some of that now in a series. Lube – Stop buying…

Non-Verbal Training of a Sub

  I need to preface that these are MY techniques. Yes others have their own, yes you may have seen elements of this before, yes there are books out there that describe doing it different – this is simply mine. Feel free to borrow, adapt, and use in any way other than publishing or monetizing…

Still Plugging away, and being anal about it……

Hello Friends….. I am trying SO HARD to keep blogging. I am BOUND and determined to prove to myself that I can SUBMIT and write one a day. I have so much to share, so much of myself I wish to RELEASE onto the page, to SHOWER it with my thoughts, until it is all…