Contemplation – and a F*ck Ton of logistics….

So here I am – 11:43 in the evening. I just closed 4 more product deals, and still the site isn’t ready. I have been given advisement from mentors and my crew of confidants – perfection will be the death of me.  We will close on the work for the site over the next four…

Making something new again…..

Wicked Daddy admits that he is proud of this particular effort that I am about to share. In the featured picture for this post is something I bet most all of you have seen and likely most of you own. The little shiny anal plugs with the big looking jewel, sizes in small, medium, and…

Oh I feel sooooo……Wicked

It’s been too long since writing. It has been like denying sexual release for weeks. Excruciating.  Wicked Daddy has been SO busy. Too Busy. But now……sitting in my living room with 1.22 tons! of Sex Toys in front of me. Wicked thoughts abound. I think – Holy Hell that would be one helluva party…..Even if…

Q&A: Three – Mantras, Spanking, and Squirting

It’s 2:32 am, Wicked Daddy just had a 3 hour nap (IE failure to truly SLEEP) and must be productive in some way before he can attempt slumber again. I should clean the house, I should be writing product descriptions for some new product that arrived, I should be replying to a laundry list of…

Broken Toys and Broken Hearts

Hello Readers – sorry for the week away from writing – all has been insanely busy and to be honest, despite a few dozen topics I am passionate about and have been wanting to write about – my creativity has simply just not been there. Currently, I keep the oddest hours, often with just a…

Caning – the Hows and Whys – and some Wicked tips and tricks

I must say gentle readers, and to much delight for Wicked Daddy, I have been having a blast sourcing, testing, and having product made. This recently has accelerated my wanting to write on this subject, the subject of “Caning”. It is part of my training regimen for subs, slaves, and sexual littles alike to teach…

The Importance of the Collar

With so much opinion on the subject, and with variance of opinion, writing about this topic is akin to taking a political view. Let me preface that this is Wicked Daddy’s view and that if you wish to learn more of Rituals and Importance to others within BDSM that you research more for yourself. I…

The art of hair-pulling – by request

I had a write in request from a couple where she really loves hair-pulling, however he would like some pointers as it often is painful in a bad way and distracting from the adventures. . The forceful act of grabbing your sub by their hair is to command instant forced action to occur. In martial…

The BIG epiphany – a MUST read

So it has been several days since Wicked Daddy has written – but I assure you gentle readers – it was for a great cause. It has long been a hobby of mine to write and teach DIY BDSM to our communities as well as to personally find great value in quality products for my…

Expectations for my Little – A Daddy’s note

I came across this today and, given a topic I have been wanting to write while also – having had a busy few days and being lazy to create NEW content – will give this up now. This was a sub who found quickly through this Daddy that she really REALLY wanted to be in…

This Master/Sir/Daddy is NOT infallible – my admissions….

I admit to my successes being built upon some total failings. I am in Seattle, the place where Amazon stresses “Fail Big, Fail Fast” to their employees.  I have also been (at times) listed a bit of a braggart – as I write often of my successes – but just as important (if not more)…

The Power of Reflex Association

It was roughly seven months ago when I got a call from a former sub of mine. It had been almost 7 years before when we had started our adventure together. At that time she was in my servitude for about 5 1/2 months. We took about 9 months apart and she returned for another…

What’s in a name? The choice of Master, Sir, or Daddy

This is something that is true in almost every Dom/Sub relationship of my last 6 years. It is a wonderful gift I have learned to give. It has become for me a capturing of the essence of those first few moments when you “Fall in love”. It establishes the relationship, the dynamic, and with one…

So, do you Love Anal? Or will this be your first time?

I am a total braggart to say, and say with ZERO humility, but once,  having a girl bound and me leaning my mouth to her ear with a hand that had been teasing her vagina for the last 40 minutes,  while whispering to her the title of this post, made her reach a very fulfilling…

The Mind “F” – One Technique (Graphic 18+)

There is a sublime component of training that removes individual thought. It trains the sub to think only of what the Master wants, and to learn to be conscious of, well, serving without consciousness. It is the mind fuck…… One technique to be shared. This particular sub was a “Thinker” – This Master/Daddy loves “Thinkers”….

BDSM Consultant : Wicked Daddy

So this world moves in odd ways. I am an entrepreneurial spirited man. I have been for many many years, and I am quite adept at networking. About six months ago a friend – another entrepreneur – had asked me if I knew anyone that would be a subject matter expert in BDSM. This conversation…

DIY BDSM – Part 1 (Save Money – get better experience)

I used to have a blog a long time ago on DIY BDSM. This was at a point where I regularly mentored up and coming doms and subs. I had even delivered such teaching in group settings and even at events. I will re-create some of that now in a series. Lube – Stop buying…

Non-Verbal Training of a Sub

  I need to preface that these are MY techniques. Yes others have their own, yes you may have seen elements of this before, yes there are books out there that describe doing it different – this is simply mine. Feel free to borrow, adapt, and use in any way other than publishing or monetizing…

Still Plugging away, and being anal about it……

Hello Friends….. I am trying SO HARD to keep blogging. I am BOUND and determined to prove to myself that I can SUBMIT and write one a day. I have so much to share, so much of myself I wish to RELEASE onto the page, to SHOWER it with my thoughts, until it is all…

Q&A Two – or – I swear I’m getting punked

Okay – round 2 A specific Anon asks: pervy questions (which I TOTALLY appreciate btw, but won’t recite the exact questions here, but will respond as such) a) Repetition, slow 2 second intervals – 2-3 inches in and out. Hair pulling to match rhythm. b) Just shy of 6 inches, but thick as fuck and…

How about a little “po-em”

In the wonderful land of ABDL, A place with the best parts of both heaven and hell, There lived a wise wizard named Wicked Daddy, Who could have fooled them all, (or wait, he may have already, had he?) You see in this land, there was tons of activity, that filled many joys – based…

A Great Truth…….

A dom friend and I were discussing many things about the dynamic tonight. I enjoy having such a confidence of someone whom, both brilliant, but also of equal experiences. Both of us had talked about the topics that are so damn hard to blog/write about.  The value to subs on the taboo subject of degradation…

Q&A : One

Okay in the last week I have gotten more than a few questions sent in anonymously. Either its all one person (in which case watch out – I enjoy having stalkers) or more likely it is a coordinated pranking. Regardless I don’t like leaving things unsaid so Question from Anon: Why no pictures of you?…

Setting reward “Limits” – a few tips

A few “Best Tips” for Daddies whom have rewards systems that let their Littles earn “Whatever they want”. I have been blessed with some very creative little imps with devious and playful minds and it has gotten me into some rather precarious (although fun) scenarios. SET SOME GUIDELINES – else you may find yourself writing…

The Realities of a Lonely Daddy

I have often declared myself Polyamorous. I have often boasted of this Daddy having enough Love to share with many. There is a secret behind all of that – a “Truth” this Daddy knows. It is simple – there is no “Daddy” without a “Little One”. I write this now as I have lately been mentoring…

The Three Worst (or best) Safe Words

She lays bound before me. Leaning on her elbows and knees, Wrists bound to her shoulders, Feet a healthy distance apart – held fast by the spreader bar. Her hair tied to the rope attached to the hook in her ass, raising her head up and arching that back in such a splendid fashion to…

Hello World.

Nice to meet you. First off – Thank you for visiting my site. I am honored and humbled. Second – what you should expect from me – I am a caring and loving (as much as I am a strict) Daddy Dom. I am hoping that my 30+ years experiences (both good and bad) can…

Adulting Sucks, it can suck more for a Daddy

It is cemented in my mind that part of my Daddy role is, like with my real children, to shield my littles from any and all “Ickiness” of the adult world. After all, words like “finances, debt, employment, responsibility” are not words that a Little should understand or care about. In these times I find…