The subtle nuances of Ownership

This is in response to a conversation with my friend K.L. She is an amazing free spirit still discovering the depths of her submissive side while also taking tip toes in what may be her dominant side. We just had a lovely phone conversation together and she felt there was enough value in what we…

Q&A: Three – Mantras, Spanking, and Squirting

It’s 2:32 am, Wicked Daddy just had a 3 hour nap (IE failure to truly SLEEP) and must be productive in some way before he can attempt slumber again. I should clean the house, I should be writing product descriptions for some new product that arrived, I should be replying to a laundry list of…

Spanking 101 : The Art and Science

If you haven’t yet seen the clips from the movie “A Dangerous Method” of a Keira Knightly being spanked to orgasm or seen James Spader spank Maggie Gyllenhaal in “The Secretary”, then do yourself a favor and watch that before you read this. (Or like I did, re-watch the first one a few dozen times before…

Broken Toys and Broken Hearts

Hello Readers – sorry for the week away from writing – all has been insanely busy and to be honest, despite a few dozen topics I am passionate about and have been wanting to write about – my creativity has simply just not been there. Currently, I keep the oddest hours, often with just a…

The Wicked Glass Rods of Training

Oh, the simple beauty of these instruments of torture….from the slender rod of initiation to the bulging rod of doing anything to satisfy the commands of Sir.  These completely satisfied the regime of training – of the sub being ever ready to accept the demands of the penetration of Sir. It was week 5 into…

Caning – the Hows and Whys – and some Wicked tips and tricks

I must say gentle readers, and to much delight for Wicked Daddy, I have been having a blast sourcing, testing, and having product made. This recently has accelerated my wanting to write on this subject, the subject of “Caning”. It is part of my training regimen for subs, slaves, and sexual littles alike to teach…

The Importance of the Collar

With so much opinion on the subject, and with variance of opinion, writing about this topic is akin to taking a political view. Let me preface that this is Wicked Daddy’s view and that if you wish to learn more of Rituals and Importance to others within BDSM that you research more for yourself. I…